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Mommy & Me Monday

       Since I have had Abram, I have started taking thousands of pictures of him by himself, some of him with Matt, and well...none of me with him! He is the cutest little thing in the world, but I figured he would like a few pics of us together. I am linking up with some other ladies for Mommy & Me Monday to force myself to step back in front of the camera like I always was during pregnancy.

       It is a good thing this weekend was full of adventure so I had to get out of my pjs and work out clothes. We went back to Louisiana for Matt's best friend's wedding. Abram didn't join us for the actual wedding, but did come to the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner; sporting his Tux onesie he got for Christmas from Uncle Dave. He was a hit!

Suit up!

He looks like he is dancing... 

The night we got home I made Matt take this...one of my favorite things is when he falls asleep on my shoulder

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Happily Ever After

Yesterday we celebrated our first anniversary as a married couple! We both cannot believe how quickly this year has passed...it really does seem like yesterday that we were dancing like crazy at our reception. This one year also means that we have now been living together for almost three years and a couple for 8 years and 8 months!
We were in Lafayette over the weekend to see Leslie's sister, Naomie, get married. She was beautiful and so were her bridesmaids in yellow (deja vu ;)). There wedding was lots of fun with new dances I hadn't seen before and a photobooth.
We managed to get up early on Sunday to head home to celebrate our anniversary that night and eat our cake (which I ate even though it wasn't the best idea...it is a once-in-a-lifetime kinda thing). Matt did the planning, but I told him it is his anniversary too. We left to head to Perry's steakhouse at 7 (the start time of our ceremony) and on the way Matt played the song I walked down the aisle to (Yellow)...memories! He also gave me a sweet card that got me crying...finally a year later I cried haha! We enjoyed dinner and then went home to eat our cake (still delish)...unfortunately it was a Sunday so that was the end of our celebrating, but it was very simple and nice.

I never thought when my best friends made it their mission to get us to "date" in High School, that it would lead to this kind of happiness. Matt always teases me that I almost gave up... We have been through many stages of life together... me cheering for him in football games, high school dances, him going away to college while I stayed in Lafayette, my parents moving away, studying abroad, the introduction of Gable (no easy task at the beginning), graduations, being at LSU together, Matt's first career job with our big move, our first house, and finally our marriage.

We both thought our favorite point of the last year was the wedding (being with everyone to celebrate) and the honeymoon...and of course, the worst was all of my school torture. I am so excited to see what the next year has in store for us! It should be very exciting!

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Our pictures are ready!

I have been seriously neglecting the blog since getting married. This is not because I don't love it...I am just in mega-cleaning mode these days. I have been organizing my whole house. This includes giving away 3 bags of clothes/purses/shoes from my closet, organizing Matt's closet, organizing my design shelf and throwing away 3 shelves of samples/brochures, organizing our office, etc. I think the fear of going back to school unorganized is the culprit of this.

If I haven't already e-mailed you this...our pictures from the wedding are in! Matt and I have been re-living our wedding day in all of its wonderful excitement over and over again. Thank you so much Clint Shuttlesworth! Go to the link below and enter in the password: yourock. We get the cd of them next week so I will be posting them on Facebook. In the meantime, here is a pic I "stole" from his gallery. Now I am off to replant some plants in the flower beds!

http://www.clintsbad.com/pickpic/gallery/splash.php?gallery_id=55

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Can We Stay on Our Honeymoon, Please?

I asked the last day of our Honeymoon as we walked on the beach...

Our honeymoon was the most needed vacation I have ever taken and was also one of the best! We left the hotel at 3:30 on Sunday morning...we had just enough time to shower and take a short nap. We slept on the first flight and the second watched the movie, "Valentines Day" with the other 90% of the plane that were honeymooners. Most of the girls wore their "bride" shirts  or sun dresses and some guys had their "groom" shirts. All had their shiny, newly polished rings on that glistened in the light, freshly manicured nails, and a newlywed glow. Matt and I had bags under our eyes and no rings (thought it was a smart idea when going to the ocean), but we did have pretty nails. ;)

We arrived on St. Lucia and were greeted by the rain and gray skies due to the recent tropical storm. We didn't mind, we just wanted to sleep...but this didn't happen until we rode an hour and a half on very windy roads...many got car sick while Matt slept haha. We were greeted by friendly staff at Ti Kaye who gave us welcome leis made out of banana leaves and a welcome rum punch in a wooden cup. That night we ate dinner at the resort (the only available place to eat at night, averaging 100 dollars a dinner).

 Our bungalow was amazing with a gorgeous view of the ocean that we would never get sick of looking at. It was complete with french doors that would open to the porch that had a hammock and private plunge pool...that connected to our outdoor shower from which we could look at the ocean. Flowers covered our bed that we quickly brushed off and fell like zombies into until about noon the next day.

 Our shower

We woke to partly cloudy skies and took the chance to relax on the beach...only 160 steps down from the resort. (better than the boat/car ride at other resorts) We ate at the beach bar and grill and took the day to kayak to private beaches and lay around.

On Tuesday, we took a 30 minute water taxi ride to the capital city of St. Lucia, the Castries. While there we had the opportunity visit the craft market, a local cafe for some juice, a 400 year old tree, the city's cathedral, some duty free shops, and see an animation about the island's history.We finally found out that the island was fought over by the french and british until the 70's, when they got their independence...just in time for a hurricane to hit and destroy many homes; leaving the country with little money to support itself. This did explain the mixture of creole food and language with british-english and driving on the left side of the road. That night we ate our cold lunch left-overs from the mini-fridge in order to save money for activities and relax on our porch...

Matt and the lady at the craft market that sold him a painting
 The Cathedral in Castries
Us in front of the 400 year old tree
Wednesday, we woke up excited about our horseback riding that morning...only to find that it was storming and canceled...it rained until around noon so we sat around reading and eating. After the rain was done, we hiked down the steps to the beach and lay out under the cloudy skies. Later that day we were able to kayak some more and snorkel next to the beach. We saw a lot of fish and found out why we kept seeing Sandals and other boats dropping off people there...apparently our cove has the best snorkeling on the island, SCORE!
That night, the resort hosted a cocktail hour with a live band and a large buffet in order to get the small amount of guests that stay there acquainted with each other. We met many couples and have kept in touch with a couple from Orlando that wants us to go visit.
The day of sitting around made Matt antsy...he booked up our last 3 days with back-to-back activities. This started with a beach outing Thursday morning, followed by horseback riding in the afternoon. We each got a well-trained female horse...his was named, "Olympia" and mine was, "Dalila". We felt bad for his for having to carry such a heavy guy...she was the slowest one of the bunch. We road through the banana plantations...learning all about bananas and then down to the beach to get on our guides horse in the ocean bareback. It was as bad as I thought, but his constant bucking and sitting due to the "ladies" on the beach made it a little difficult. Afterwards we rode our girls down to see St. Lucia's rum distillery and back to the ranch. When we got back to the resort, we quickly changed and left again to head to our romantic dinner at the Rainforest Hideaway restaurant 20 minutes away in Marigot Bay. 
Friday morning we got up bright and early, went to the all-you-can-eat breakfast buffet, and headed an hour away to our Rainforest Canopy Tour- code word for zip lining through the rainforest. We looked EXTREMELY attractive in our outfits...and I was nervous to control myself on the lines and still let myself go fast enough to not stop in the middle of the lines. After a few lines...they told me I was better than Matt! I let him know...he got a video on one line, but I am not sure how to post it. We cooled off in our plunge pool and that night went with a group of guests to a local fishing town called, Anse la Raye, for their weekly fish fry festival. Matt and I love seafood so we sat at a table most of the night eating king fish sandwiches, crab cakes, grilled red snapper with garlic, and other dishes. After that we walked around the town watching the locals and tourist dance to the music while they waiting for a local club to open up.

 Eating at the fish fry festival
Saturday was another early day, but since it was our last full day we didn't mind...we were going scuba diving! I had been sick ever since our plane ride there (my darn allergies), but luckily this day my congestion had gone away (otherwise I couldn't dive). I was still extra nervous about getting my ears to equalize as we went deeper...my ears always give me trouble...ever since I was a baby. We took the DSD course which only took about an hour and can contribute towards our eventual certification. We had to pass a few underwater tests before going; including flushing our mask (the hardest for me) and putting our respirator back in and purging it if we were to lose it. Then we were off...we completely forgot to take pictures in our dive suits and tanks (which were heavy as hell) because of our excitement/nerves in the beginning and more excitement/hunger at the end. We got to pet a sea horse and hold and arrow-head crab. When I was given a slug to hold, I didn't realize I had sunk and was about to hit the lava rock at the bottom...my instructor, Lester,...and awesome guy...pointed and out and I freaked (thinking about snorkeling near the sharp coral in Hawaii); I then knocked my respirator out of my mouth at about 30 feet under...freaking out Matt and Lester. To their (and my own) surprise, I calmly held up my hand to calm down and got my respirator back in my mouth... and we continued. Honestly, if it would have been my mask and I couldn't see I would have lost it...but when we got back to shore Lester said we were naturals and need to get certified...I am never a natural at ANYTHING! We want to get certified now so we can go with my dad on future vacations...get ready dad!
  The only pick we got of our gear
 Us with Lester later that day
Directly after lunch we went to our hour-and-a-half free massages that provided a terrific view of the ocean. And right after that trucked it to our wine tasting with Cleus...our favorite staff member that we are still keeping in touch with. He has a smile that brightens your day and was a wealth of wine knowledge. We found out he has a girlfriend of 6.5 years at the resort, so as any girl that waited a long time herself would do, I suggested that our tip go towards the engagement ring savings account haha. The tasting made me like wine again and I felt quite nice afterwards. ;) We ate at the resort and sat at the bar with the orlando couple until it closed...Perfect last night.
The next day we hit the beach for an hour before leaving and walked around thinking about having to leave, but wanting to stay. When we left our taxi driver took us to see the Pitons which we had not gotten to see yet and a small town of, Soufriere, that we are told we must visit when we go back. Twelve hours later we were in Houston driving on fast, straight interstates again...boo hoo. We are looking into our next vacation! ;)
 The Pitons with Soufriere in the foreground
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Our wedding day was more than either of us could dream of...pure perfection. We hope our marriage follows along those lines although we are not naive that it takes work. I figure if after 8 years of being together and two years of living together we still jumped head-over-heels into marriage...something must be working for us.

Our families have been at our sides every step of the way and showed us how much they care during our year of wedding planning...yes, the entire year of venues, food, flowers, music, dresses, invites, rings, smiles, and break-downs. Wedding planning does take a lot of work and I am glad to get to rest and relax now, but it did pass by too fast. An entire year of planning for four hours of fun that felt like 20 minutes. I kept reminding myself to take it all in...in each moment. From the getting ready with my girls, to the ceremony music played by my cousins, to the saints chant at the reception...everything was special and memorable.

Thank you everyone for coming to our weekend of wedding fun...we had a blast and hope you all had just as much fun as we did! Also, thanks to our parents for working so hard to help us put this wedding together...it is now over and you can go get a margarita or two! ;)

Nikki

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Wedding,Wedding, and more Wedding

I haven't been doing much of anything besides final wedding planning since school got out.

However, I was able to get a weekend away to ride some boats in tickfaw with Matt and some friends. I hadn't been out there since the Boat Bash in 2008, when Kristen made an entire ice chest of jello shots. Ashtyn and I attempted to be Kristen and make our own (I have never made them before)...but when getting the jello powder out, we realized we forgot to buy the little cups so I had to settle for crystal light and vodka and Ashtyn drank her Michelob Ultra.

The first boat we went on...courtesy of Michelle's family
The Propstop- a boat dock bar
Matt sporting his knee brace after wakeboarding
The next weekend I was kept busy and entertained by my very well-planned Bachelorette Party. Thanks Mom and Kristen! They worked so hard to plan out every detail of the weekend and I felt so lucky to have such a wonderful maid of honor...seriously if anyone is getting married and looking for a moh...Kristen is your girl! ;) They had a cheesy bridal veil for the day just to tick me off (but I wore it joyfully), and at night I had a cute birdcage veil with feathers made by them...and they got all the girls black clips and headbands of different types to wear at nights. Many of the details and pictures of this party must remain under-wraps until after this coming weekend (Matt's Bachelor Party) due to him trying to top our un-toppable party. He has found out about a lot ofit because I cannot keep my mouth shut...but the details he doesn't know. So I will just post two photos to get the imagination going...
 Danielle and Kristen
Me, Leslie, and Erika...poor Leslie had to drink water the WHOLE weekend due to baby Guilbeaux on the way...what a good friend!
Now that we are 12 days away...I have found comfort in following this girls blog who has the same wedding date as me...wish I would have found it months ago... She blogs about EVERYTHING wedding related (much of it comes at the exact same time as my stuff). This week was the weather...yes a stress that is topping my list this week. We do have a backup plan, but I would LOVE for it to be not deathly hot and clear skies. We got our marriage license last Friday and now I am just finishing up details (if only it would stop storming so I could go paint outside). Another thing that comforts me about reading her blog is her "wedding brain" as she calls it, that has rendered her (and me) incapable of making ANY decisions on our own. I have never taken so long and needed so many opinions when picking out jewelry; in fact I am the jewelry queen usually, but over the last month you would swear I was a tomboy who has never worn a necklace in my life. If I could get them on time I would have just bought 3 options to pick on the wedding day, but the shipping time made the decision for me. If I have to and I'm not happy with my jewelry the day of, I will simply pull a forever 21 necklace out of my closet collection. Wish me luck for the next 2 weeks!
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An Oklahoma Weekend

Last weekend Matt's parents, Matt, and I packed the van full of luggage and headed over to Norman. It was a crazy weekend with lots going on.

We got there Friday, just in time to head over to the Kansas, Styx, and Foreigner concert. I remember always listening to my dad's foreigner cd when I was little because it was one of the first cd's we owned. The crowd was unusual and after hearing Juke Box Hero and Hot Blooded, my mom and I decided to leave with Matt's parents to finish getting stuff for Kristen's party the next day. Matt and my dad staying until past the end...and when we saw them that night they were off of the deep end as well.

Saturday was Kristen's graduation AND her birthday. So it was her birthuation I guess. We went to the packed arena to see her get her diploma, and she then snuck out early (thank god!) haha. Matt and his parents left early to go prepare the Jambalaya and potato salad for the party.

We got home and helped to finish cooking everything and began the party. It was a day of food, hot-tubbing because it was unusually cool, and games...and for me a little nap.  It turned out to be a wonderful day and Kristen had a lot of fun.

On Sunday, Dawn through me a bridal shower at her house...themed yellow. LOVE IT! She had the most beautiful setup with yellow cupcakes, lemon drops, tulips (my favorite flower), punch, and other treats...including some AMAZING chocolate covered strawberries. Not as many people as I would have hoped came due to weather and graduations, but the people that did were my closest family so I could not have asked for more.  Casey was so excited about the wedding and the fact that he was in it. I think at this point he has totally forgotten about Matt, and it is now mine and his wedding. Thank you so much Dawn for such a beautiful shower, it meant so much to me!

P.S. whoever has the pictures with the grandparents and Kayla, could you send them?
Now ready or not, here comes the wedding...29 Days and counting!
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Updates...

Well finals are over...well somewhat over. Although my studio professors are supposed to have the grades in this weekend, they want us to come back Monday with newly printed boards showing the edits we have made. So I guess that means I still have some editing to do haha.

It has been awhile so although I haven't slept at all, I thought I should write a little something. It feels so nice to know the semester is coming to an end. Not only that, but we should be getting our engagaments pictures that we took on April 29th any day now. (I'll will post a link when I get them). If we get 25-75 comments on our pictures on the photographers blog we get free stuff, so get ready to comment when I let you know. I had been waiting and waiting for the day of the session to get there...bleaching my teeth, working out, getting sleep. The day of I wasn't feeling very well though, of course. I could not get my head on straight and was VERY nervous to take pictures. I will tell more of the story when I post them.

 We were trying to find Matt new jeans before our shoot...he was frustrated and this is how I found him when I walked into the hall. I think it looks funny...
The night before our canceled shoot, enjoying gelato's after shopping hard for outfits

So what else besides wedding and school has been going on? Well, Matt tore his ACL...ya you read correctly. You know, we figured that we didn't have enough going on in our lives so let's add this into the mix. He hurt it a year ago playing flag football (yes he also broke his nose in college playing flag football). We would ice it every night and he would go play again and again (reinjuring it). He wakeboarded all summer, and this winter he was fine. Then flag football started again this year and in the first game he hurt it yet again so he decided it was time to give in and see a doctor. I wish he would have done it sooner because he has been very active on a torn ACL for a year. He got a VERY expensive knee brace so he can continue to be active...luckily we have a fantastic support system to step in and help us out.;) After the wedding he plans to get the knee surgery to have it fixed. But this will have to be done soon after because there is talk that he could be going to Russia for work (for 3 months to a year) in the fall. (yes, leaving me behind). This is not certain, but it will make for one hell of a first year together.

How I will treat myself if Matt goes to Russia...this was just one night he wasn't home..

 This weekend we are heading to Oklahoma for Kristen's graduation and birthday, and my bridal shower. I am so excited because I haven't been since Christmas and I haven't seen a lot of my family since thanksgiving. Now, I just hope that the tornado's stay away while I am there, but hey, last time I was in a record breaking blizzard when I went! I just want some pool time...

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Tie-the-Knot Celebration

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Related Posts with ThumbnailsYes...two posts in one day. I am playing catch up. Still very busy, but since our shoot was canceled I am catching up on life outside of school for a few hours.

Last weekend we went to Lafayette for a party thrown for us by Bob and Lou Ahrabi. I have been calling it the, "Tie-the-Knot Celebration", but it didn't really have a name.

It was at the Petroleum Club in Lafayette...walk through the 50th Reunion Party in the front room, to the old Men's Quarters in the back. Not only was the room we were in small and quaint with a nice warm feel to it; hearing the old people (who I loved) say, "You are too young to be here for our reunion!?' was pretty funny. If Kristen was there, I am sure she would have ended up on the dance floor with them.

This party was planned quickly, so my mom, Kristen and Jake were not able to make it due to the 20 hour round-trip drive. My dad was in New Orleans for work, so he rented a car (if you could call it that) and drove over to "represent" as mom called it. I wish I had a picture of that car...picture my dad in a small white hatchback that looks like a smart car in size...with manual window roll down that he would feverishly turn in order to talk to us...or pick up the ladies haha.

Matt and I showed up a few mintue late, as usual, and were amazed by the setup when we walked in. I am hoping that our wedding can compete with the decor. I had told Mrs. Lou to do a Louisiana theme if she needed ideas. The decor was in our wedding colors; each table had a basket of citrus fruits and the mantle had an assortment of Louisiana greenery. The cake was delicious; decorated in our colors with a fleur de lis and they handed out favors of Tabasco sauce and pecan pralines. Wow!

We stepped into the crowd of people and I don't think I stopped talking from that point on...next to the door was also a framed picture of us that people could engrave their name in. The food was a buffet line of all sorts of stuff...including my favorite, CRAB CAKES! Mrs. Debra and Mr. Saeed stood up to give a great speech and called on my dad, who was put on the spot, and told a sweet story about when we moved to Louisiana...I looked down at the table the whole time to keep from crying...yes I am Debbie Junior.

Then Matt and I were called up, and of course he says a great little speech while I look at Mrs. Linda, mouthing, "I don't know what to say..." She was my "mom" for the night. So it came to me and I said..."Yes, I agree with Matt." haha...WHAT!? I need to practice that stuff...no words could come out, yet I am known to ya'll as the person who won't shut up... Matt then goes on to tell the introverted/extroverted story from our marriage class, while my teeth chattered together...too many people looking at me. How am I gonna get married in front of double the number of people?!

Anyway, it was a fantastic night full of lots of friends...although I did miss many as well. Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Ahrabi!

The cake
 mmmm...buffet
 Lindsay and Linda
The reserved table
 
The speeches
 Bob and Lou Ahrabi

Love this series of pics...all the "adults" were amazed by the iphone barcode scanner and took the b.m. dresses to see if I got the best deal, then Erika fussed at my dad to give them back, then she got them! haha
Amy, Lee, Matt and David: Coffee Drinkers

 Mr. Saeed and Mrs. Debra with the flowers I got, then accidentally left at their house

And if you haven't gotten your wedding invite, be looking for it!

Nikki

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Sit Back and Relax

Our engagement photo session was supposed to be at 5 pm, but due to weather was rescheduled this morning for this coming Thursday evening. I hope it doesn't rain on Thursday because we cannot reschedule our shoot for a fourth time...Matt and I have devised a plan to make our shoot really cool if it does. This would involve dramatic lighting, dancing (my idea), an umbrella, and kiss under it in the rain (Matt's idea).

I guess here is to another week of eating right, excercising, teeth whitening, and face cleansing routinely. Luckily, Matt and I felt the pressure to go shopping together last night for our outfits...finally! I will get mine ready this weekend so my crazy week doesn't get in the way of looking pretty for the shoot. But...since it is cancelled for today...I am taking a spoon and scooping out a glob of Nutella from the jar Matt keeps hidden from me on the top shelf of our pantry; for fear that I will not be able to resist and eat it all before he gets a bite. Yum!

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A Mardi Gras Shower with a Couple of Friends and Family

We had our couple's shower last Saturday...exactly one week ago. It was on Matts family's farm in the dairy where his grandpa used to milk cows. Oh the memories this dairy holds...

The setup

Erika, Leslie, and Leigh Ann took charge in planning this shower for us from the very beginning. Layla, David, and Matt's parents stepped in to help with a place to have it and to make ALL of the food. And there was a lot of food! From fruit, to cheese, to dips, to gumbo, to king cakes...it looked like a greecian feast.

 
  

All of the wedding party that attended brought a little something to help in the preparation. Kristen brought the coronas, Jake-the water, Logan-more beer, Ashtyn- the daquiris, Derrick-the ping pong balls, Omeed- the sprite and coke, Danielle- more beer..etc...we had a lot of beer haha We are so grateful to have such FANTASTIC friends and family! It had been raining the entire week before, but cleared up for our special day (hopefully we are as lucky for our ceremony in June).

It passed by so fast, but it was so nice to see everyone. I had met many of the persian guests at other parties, but some I didn't remember their names. I am also not sure they even knew who I was haha. One passed me up when walking in, then later walked to my mom and told her congrats (thinking she was the bride)...many women later asked me if she was my sister. I commented "no", and told them her age haha. Kristen was her typical awesome maid-of-honor self...cutting the limes and showing up with a printed list of names to write the gifts down. Leslie was not herself (sorry it has to be said)...she is typically the punctual one who is always early and has everything planned out. That day she wasn't feeling good because of a Mardi Gras ball the night before. I loved it...everyone has their time when they need to be a little off...that is why we are friends haha. Erika and Leigh Ann got to the shower early to decorate everything...I appreciated that, especially since Leigh Ann is now larger than normal. ;)

The warm gumbo helped out with the cool weather which seemed to get cooler as each gift was opened. Everyone sat patiently and watched Matt and I open our many great gifts...we are so excited about them. One of our favorites was the set of crawfish boiling supplies Matt's aunt gave us since we couldn't register for them.  It was just a great day with great people...if it is any preminition of what is to come for our wedding day...I CAN'T WAIT!

Later that day, the party continued at Erika's in-laws RV they set up on the parade route. It was Matt and I's shower continued complete with left-overs and sandwiches. It was the only parade that Matt and I got to go to this year so we enjoyed it.

The next day before we left, I was able to go to Linda's and try my dress, shoes, and veil on for my family to see. I was nervous to show them and hoped they liked it...my dad came up with a new song for me to walk down the aisle to. We brought Jake to the airport in Houston so he could fly home for school. When telling him goodbye, I thanked him for going through so much trouble to come down for our shower. He said, "Why wouldn't I, you are my sister!?" He is getting so grown-up...I love my family!

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Marriage Prep

   Today, Matt and I attended our marriage prep class. Recommended by Erika, we decided that we should have a class before marriage to make sure we are on the same page about different issues and to learn some ways of creating a healthier marriage right from the start.
 Picture Painted by Kelli Murray: http://www.etsy.com/shop/KelliMurrayArt
After I saw her cool, California wedding on a blog, I discovered her paintings and am now obsessed with her work. She and Erin have inspired me to get going with my paintings so that hopefully soon I can get my etsy site started. Still trying to find my own style, but enjoying the painting I have been doing. 
   I found this free, eight hour course through our ceremony pastor after asking him about what is offered in Texas. Apparently Texas is trying to decrease divorce rates so they offer these courses throughout the year for free with a free lunch and give you a certificate for $60 off of your marriage license. 
   It being on a Saturday, we were not exactly thrilled to be sitting in the Pearland Public Library (I hate libraries) for eight hours. We got there just in time at 10 am and started filling out all of the forms as to what we wanted in a marriage, children, finances, etc. (Matt and I still haven't compared our forms). The conference room filled up with about 20 couples quickly and the discussion began. One of the first topics covered was extroverted and introverted personalities. I have never been sure what I am and Matt had never thought about it, although I knew he was extroverted. After filling out the questions, it was determined that Matt had 11 extrovert and 3 introvert answers, and I had 5 extrovert and 9 introvert answers...yes, apparently I am introverted. We analyzed it together and verified that this was true for each of us in public, however, in our personal relationships we are both COMPLETELY opposite. We were the only couple like that haha. We had to split into extroverted and introverted groups where I was put with a bunch of VERY quiet folks. One couple was Mexican and never said a word, but the guy kept staring at me creepily...and another was a pair of slightly over-weight people with glasses. After being asked how we prefer to communicate, they proceded to tell me how their family must e-mail them and understand if they don't respond. haha...Matt and I learned a lot about ourselves...
  After lunch, which was cheesy pizza (not happy about that), we also talked about healthy ways to have discussions about key issues with out arguing which really seemed to work. They constantly remind you that your spouse needs to hear that you appreciate them throughout your relationship...we are hoping some of the things we learned will stay with us. We also learned to ask the other about their day and heard from some very out-there characters about their problems. We felt much closer when leaving this class, but are glad the eight hours in the cold room are over with. When asked at the end what would make this class better, I replied, "a warmer room and healthier snacks (fruit)"...haha yes I am now one of THOSE people. I realized after that class that I am so lucky to have a fiance like Matt and I am glad we communicate so well. Now, off to check this off of my wedding to-do list!
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Excitement and Nerves

Tomorrow school starts (que scary movie death music)...I am very nervous because supposedly it will be the hardest semester yet. I keep trying to think positive because thinking negative sure didn't help me any last semester. Sooo...I am going to have a fun and awesome semester! (said with a cheesy smile)

This past week was full of excitement. The most exciting thing was that my wedding dress came in on Saturday! As I opened the box, I saw the word dress on the label, and began tearing at the tape with all of my might. I was so excited when I saw it...it is sooo pretty. My ebay dress purchase was a success in terms of quality! When I tried it on, it was a bitter sweet moment. Originally when trying the designer dress on in the store, it was so small that it wouldn't go over my rear. I ordered the correct size to fit my larger bottom half, but apparently I have lost a lot of weight since I got measured in November. The dress is big EVERYWHERE...I knew this wouldn't be easy. Hopefully after my "lady" alters it, it will fit perfectly (I she can even alter it that much). My garter also came in so my wedding day outfit is close to complete.

Matt and I also met with our cake person who helped us design it and talked to the people about our Persian Rehearsal Dinner which should be a lot of fun. Matt's parents came here last night and his mom gave me my christmas gift from the family. It was a yellow scarf that had my "new" initials on it in green and orange. It looked so weird to see those initials and think they were about to be mine.

I also had my endoscopy Monday, where I was told that my ulcer is GONE! That was a good feeling, unforutnately I still have several mini-ulcer sores so the doctor is not sure why. I also noticed that my perpetual headaches I have had several times a week for years seemed to go away when I was on my diet. I will be continuing my "lifestyle" diet, as well as, getting three different food allergy tests done to make sure that is not what is causing all of my problems.

As I am finishing up this blog, another exciting delivery was just made! I have just been loving the post woman this week! We just received our first wedding registry gift from Matt's uncle, Reza, in California. Stacked at my front door are 3 large Macy's boxes with his name on them, but I am waiting on Matt to get home to open them. I feel like a child at Christmas, so like a child, I looked at our registry and found out that it is most likely our dishes...it will be hard not to use them until we are married! Be sure to keep checking our website for updates: www.mattandnikki.projectwedding.com and sign our guestbook!

Nikki

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Almost 5 months...

Matt and I have been getting more and more motivation to get in shape for our wedding since it is almost 5 months away. We picked photos to inspire us...we will see if we get any results, but I am posting the inspiration photos to make it a little more real.

Matt was lucky to have himself to inspire...himself. He was working out pretty hard and running with his roomate, Lee at LSU about four years ago so we picked a photo from Spring Break to inspire him. It might be hard to tell, but as soon as he saw it he knew what he had to do.  He has been trying hard to go to the gym; packing a small bag to bring to work everyday. Please ignore the large blonde next to him (I cannot believe I was once "That girl" that was with the cute guy and didn't realize it haha)

I haven't been as good as I would like to be in recent years and really couldn't find a pick to inspire me. Since we are going to be at the beach (hopefully) for our honeymoon, I wanted a bathing suit picture to inspire me. The problem with going to celebs for inspiration in the past is that they all are pretty slender, and let's face it, this girl has got curves that are not going away. I tried to think of someone with a similar shape, so I picked Kim Kardashian...I know I know. It seems like everyone is talking about her body these days, but the reason I picked her is because she does not look like she is full of muscle (because mine never shows), and her rear and chest are pretty similar to mine...large. After I started running last spring, my stomach started to slim down and then this diet furthured that. I am hoping that I can continue to eat similar to the way I have been and start running again (signed up for another 10K)...and then will add in some Tae Bo resistance bands. I know myself so gyms will just not work.

Hopefully we can come close to our goals. Even if we don't, this should help to get us healthier and happier over the next couple months. Wish us luck!
Niks
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I won something...

Wish I could quickly get a trip together for palm beach haha.

My favorite website for wedding planning asked us to comment on our favorite part of wedding planning and was giving away prizes for doing so. Although I couldn't go this coming weekend, I quickly typed in mine (hoping to score the tickets for New York)...and I won 1 ticket to go to a big beach wedding show this coming weekend in Palm Beach.  It is impossible for me to get there for the event, bit is still pretty cool that I won by quickly telling what I thought....which was not about the dress (the typical bride answer)! There were 65 people writing in and they chose 17 winners, so it makes me feel great! Anyone wanna go that can get there...?
winners:
http://www.stylemepretty.com/2010/01/11/wedding-party-winners/
my comment is the 2nd one:
http://www.stylemepretty.com/2010/01/07/wedding-party-palm-beach-giveaway/

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A Mix and A-Mingle

Our engagement party was a beautiful party that pasted by so quickly. I barely got any pictures and am still waiting on some from people. I decided to post this without all of the pictures, and will just have to post more later.
I am convinced that my mom's best friend has the perfect house for hosting parties, of course I might just think that because they seem to be the go-to family to host my Lafayette parties ever since my parents moved away. Regardless, we always seem to have a blast and everything runs smoothly. That is mostly attributed to the intense preparation that they do just for me. I could not be more blessed to have such a wonderful "family" (because they are practically my family).
We had a nice turn-out of guest which pleasantly surprised me considering we sent out the invitations a mere 2.5 weeks before the party. That could not have been done without the help of my aunt, Susie, and her beautifully designed invitations at moderninvitationdesign.com. She is currently working on our wedding invitations that are gonna knock your socks off, so get ready! ;)
Most of my bridesmaids were at the party so it was nice to finally get most of them together and chat. Many of Matt's groomsmen could not make it for one reason or another, but he did have my brother and his brother, as well as, his good friend. We are hoping the guys can make it to the next event.

 
My dad's parents surprised us by driving in from Oklahoma that day. I was pretty shocked because I had just seen them a week before and they never even mentioned the party. I feel so lucky to be able to have them at these events. Just one year ago, my grandad was diagnosed with bone cancer which was followed by a series of heart attacks the next day, sending him to the ICU. He made it through that night, but stayed in a couple different hospitals for 2 months with pneumonia, and then had to relearn to walk for a month or two at my parent's house. Not only does he not have cancer, but he drove 12.5 hours straight to see me for our party! God works miracles everyday!
My dad had joked before the party about wanting to go hunting during it (I'm sure he was only half joking), so when he whipped out his speech that had been written out we were all very touched. Before the first sentence ended, my mom had tears in her eyes. I was trying to find someone who wasn't tearing up to look at so I wouldn't, but it was hard to find. Not only did he say some very nice things about me, but he also complimented Matt (I think more than me;) ). I am so lucky that my parent's and other family members not only love Matt so much, but also really enjoy his company and doing things with him. The party passed by too quickly, and made us realize that we really need to take it all in.
After the party Erika, Leslie, Leigh Ann, and I got together at Leslie's house for our annual Silver Belles Christmas Party. This year, instead of getting each other gifts, we adopted a family. Erika and Leslie had bought the gifts before we arrived so that we could all sit by the tree and wrap the gifts together while we talked and drank hot cocoa. I really hope that those gifts help to make the family's Christmas a great one.
From the weekend of my engagement party until last Wednesday, I have been sitting in front of a computer. I didn't leave the house, and rarely slept. It was very exhausting and I didn't finish everything for my final review. I have NEVER not finished...in my 6.5 years of doing this. I was and still am disappointed in my work for this past semester, but am taking it as a learning experience and trying to move one. I am definitely going to enjoy my Christmas break!
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"X"ing out the days

It seems like lately the calendar days have been collecting their X's very quickly. Before you know it...I will be walking down the aisle! ;) We have a little over 8 months left... and we are still progressing very nicely.

Two weeks ago we visited Austin, Texas to go to the one wedding shop out of four states of shops that had my dress. Of course when we got there, the dress was so small that it wouldn't go over my bottom. So I have pictures of me in the bottom of the dress, and pictures in the top separately. That does not stop my imagination so I went home and photoshopped them together to show my mom and sis the complete look. We all LOVED it and the seamstress sent me samples of the fabric she uses and I love them, so in Novermber I will be getting measured and ordering what I now know is my wedding dress. The thought that I have found my dress now makes me feel like it is all really happening, and I am getting more and more excited every day! That night we met Matt's cousin and his wife for dinner. She had called ahead for reservations and told them we were celebrating our engagement. When we got there, the menus said "Congratulations" and later we got a free desert haha. I loved it!

I have also started to collect decorations that I have found along the way at stores. Seeing everything makes it all come together and helps me to create more of a vision. Matt decided on gray suits and we are going to look for them in a few months. We have narrowed down our honeymoon destination to St. Lucia and Bora Bora, depending on money haha. My bridesmaids outfits are almost done, and I am deciding on my Junior Bridesmaid's dress this week. Today Matt and I toured the Hilton Garden Inn near our venue and they gave us a great rate of $69 per night so we will be setting that up for you all shortly! I have become an expert on cool blog sites for creative wedding ideas and have found that to be a constructive waste of my time. I am starting to put together ideas that will make our wedding more personal and am finishing picked music for the ceremony within the next week so that I can find someone to sing and play it all. If only Jonas would get back to me (as I look around scratching my head)...;)
Favorite websites so far...

I had my follow up appointment after my endoscopy the week before last. I was told at the endoscopy that I had an ulcer and would be getting anitbiotics for it. When I arrived, she said that I have a very inflamed and irritated stomach with an ulcer, and my valve between my esaphagus and stomach isn't working properly. On top of this new information, they don't know why this has happened...the story of my life! I have now decided that I will take no medication (that could just hurt something else), and have put myself on a regime of no sugar, white flour, and no dairy to get my body in balance (also no coffee). My hope is that within a few months my body will be balanced and I will be able to function fully aware and awake with no coffee. I am on day nine and doing well...I am very proud of myself and hope that this can aid in healing other imbalances in my life.

 
Flowers from Matt for our Seven Years

Matt and I celebrated our seven years of dating this past week. The day was October 10th, but Matt was at the LSU/FLORIDA game so he got back Sunday with flowers for me. Monday night he gave me a new LSU shirt, and took me to dinner and a movie. I must say, I have found such a great guy! After seven years I can still get giddy when thinking about how sweet he is which is rare I have found. Sure we have our tiffs, but in the end we conquer together as strong team mates.

Have a good weekend,
Niks

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Almost 9 months left...and still a lot to do

Well in my attempt to avoid doing school work I decided to write a little about my wedding planning experience.

Well first of all...the advice about not listening to people's advice was given to me on a congratulations card from my sister...and it is so true. It seems like the people you want advice from do not give it enough and the one's you don't want it from cannot stop giving it. haha

After getting engaged, I lay in bed the next morning not wanting to plan ever. I knew how much work it would be and just wanted to be married. Well, planning so far has had its goods and bads.

Matt and I narrowed all of Houston's venues down to six, which we looked at and then narrowed down to three. Finally, we decided on Agave Road in Katy, Texas. We figured it was a good mid-point between Louisiana and Oklahoma and has the feel that we love. It also has an outdoor area and an indoor area.

When we paid the deposit for the venue we got our caterer, bar service, cake designer, officiant, and dj along with it. I still have to decide on some of the specifics and meet with these people and have tastings.

Next we looked for a photographer since it was one of the most important parts for me (being in a design major). I looked through many people, and met with three. They were all very good at what they do and we had a hard time deciding. In the end, Matt made a spread sheet with all three and the categories: price, skill, and personality. We rated the categories by importance and the winner ended up being the photographer we had been admiring since we moved here. He was also the one I got along with the best, and I got his price down to meet my budget.

When my mom and sister came in for the bridal show, I tried on my first wedding dress and we all fell in love with the second one. There was one more that we all liked in a picture that I wanted to try on before I decided. I have been on the hunt in Houston, Lafayette, and even tried to recreate this dress with a combination of dresses in Baton Rouge with my friend Ashtyn. I still have not found the actual dress to try on, and am waiting for a store in Austin to call back about possibly getting it for a trunk show in October. Until then, I will be putting the dress hunting on hold. I am hoping to order a dress by November/ December.

I have decided on a line for my bridesmaids to choose from. I asked them to choose from a variety of yellow, tea-length dresses and gave them until November/ December to decide which one they want.

Matt and I wrote out our ceremony and picked a song for me to walk down the aisle to. I am hoping to find a family member who can sing/play it for me. We also finalized our guest list before he left for Russia on Monday. We have a grand total of 366 people invited to our wedding! That is A LOT!

Lately, I feel like I am floating in the air with no direction to go with all of this planning stuff. My best friend, Erika, met with me on Saturday to help me clarify what I should be doing. She helped me make a 1.5 page list of things still left to do and helped me with what flowers I like. We looked at a lot of decorations so I am still very confused haha. I called a florist and setup an appointment for October so hopefully I will feel better after that. We can also do a catering tasting the first Tuesday of every month, so that might be in October as well.

I am managing school and planning better than I thought; one being a break from the other. It is starting to get more fun with the actual decroations and fashion stuff. I cannot wait to do invitations!;) I am also trying to make a list of things to do in Houston for everyone, so if anyone has any suggestions let me know!

Love you,
Niks

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"I Do"...not us yet

The last two weekends have been a nice break from school while we celebrated Matt's cousin gett married...August 7, 2009

The weekend before last we went to Marksville, Louisiana to celebrate the bride's Bachelorette Party at Paragon Casino. We had a great time by the pool and out Saturday night.

Last weekend our group of friends got together to get those two hitched. Matt is Beau's cousin and was the best man. I have grown close to his fiance over the years and was one of her bridesmaids. This was the first wedding for our group of friends that has become close in college. Thursday night was the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner at Matt's family property in Lafayette. the That night the girls stayed in a nice hotel condo and stayed up until 3:30...yes 3:30! Danielle is such an easy-going bride, I do not know if I could go that late the night before my wedding haha. Saturday we started out by getting our hair and makeup done...I would go to these girls if I was getting married in Lafayette...they are so good. We ate...but not too much...and finished getting ready to head to the church in our party bus.

The ceremony was a Catholic Mass that lasted an hour and I walked with Matt's brother. Never thought I would walk with him down the aisle before I walked with Matt ;). After the ceremony, we all took the party bus to the reception where we danced until they closed and then went downtown to continue dancing. Congrats to the happy couple...your wedding was so much fun! Have fun on your honeymoon! These pics aren't the best, when I get some more I will post them.
Niks

In other news, we poured my 800 pound baby (the cistern) today and it went well.

Matt and Nikki Wedding update:
got the date, the place, rehearsal dinner venue, caterer, dj, photographer, and I am almost done
trying to finalize a guest list and decide on which officiant we want and the type of ceremony
I am almost done deciding on the bridesmaid dresses and I have now begun trying on wedding dresses and have 2 or 3 that I really like.
Trying to get as much done before school starts as possible.

The girls for the bachelorette party

Me, Danielle, and Ashtyn at the rehearsal dinner

the three of us dancing crazy

Matt and I in the party bus
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